Someone close to me recently reminded me of this passage of scripture:
" So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone, just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. Beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity" Colossians 3:12-14
This clearly paints a mature Christian's attitude during conflicts with others. How I fall short!