I listened to Nancy Leigh DeMoss's talk at True Woman '08. I knew I need to be refreshed on that talk!
She had this quote of John Piper, "In any situation, God is doing 1,000 things we can not see and do not know."
That is one of those sayings I should post in my house!
God is always at work. We may just be aware of 1/1,000 of what's going on in a situation. With that very, small amount of information we have, we let our minds run wild of the "what ifs" and the "how comes".
I must remember that God is at work in ways that I may never know or understand and that's just fine! He's God and I am not!