Okay, guys this one's for you!
Are you upfront with your intentions?
I was talking to a girlfriend over the weekend and I was sharing about this one guy who was a little ambiguous with me before I knew John. She said, "He was the same way with me!" Not that I am picking on this guy at all, but guys come on and be up front!
It's just not nice to be all flirting with a girl you have no intentions with. Maybe you'd like to get to know her, but have no real "dating" in mind, then just get to know her without all the flirting, setting her apart or making her feel like you like.
I have to believe that guys know when they are stirring a girl his way. I know girls know when their outfit is getting attention from guys. They know when what they are wearing is causing guys to look their direction!
Guys you know when you're not being totally clear with a girl. If single men and women avoided these ambiguities, I believe maybe there be a deeper sense of God's wonderfully, high call in the body of Christ. I believe young men and women would have more respect for each other and may, just maybe more people would be married!